Saturday, November 19, 2011

Daily Tai Chi

I walk home from work around the same time every day, following the same route. I enjoy my walk, right as dusk fades into evening and the tie dyed sky melts into a thick violet velvet.

It's not a serene walk. No, I'm surrounded by honking cars and motos and furious cyclists all eager to return home to a steaming plate of noodles after a long day in the office. The roads are more congested and chaotic than at any other time of day, and crossing the street on foot is a near impossible task. Fruit vendors wearily beg me to purchase an apple, a kilo of bananas so they too can end the day with a profit. Even the fuzzy street puppies, who stumble drowsily through the day, awaken and bark and scatter, running from door to door and nipping my heels.

I ignore all of this though, and hum along with the victorious melody of the ice cream truck instead.

Before my last turn, I pass a row of three story houses with beige gated garage doors and droopy hanging orchids. Atop the end house, I always see a grayed septuagenarian calmly practicing the art of tai chi. She stands on the flat roof with her eyes closed wearing a dark, cotton pajama set while her arms and feet are in constant motion. Though I am many meters away on the street, I can tell she is at peace as she harnesses the earth's energy. She is smiling with the wisdom of a woman who has seen many good days and many bad days and has learned to find balance. The street around me seems calmer when I pass her as if she is the center of a field of serenity. It is a soothing moment in my day.

A few paces later, I reach another hectic street crossing.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

A Picture is Worth 1000 Words...











Traffic in Ho Chi Minh City.
Clarke Quay shopping/restaurant district in Singapore.
Fort Canning Park, Singapore.
Jungle trekking in Cameron Highlands, Malaysia.
Cameron Highlands, Malaysia hill station.

Friday, October 14, 2011

Life on a graph


When students study abroad, their first lesson inevitably focuses on the emotional ups and downs that will assault them throughout their semester. This process has been repeatedly mapped out in graph format, and every student is expected to follow the same pattern, albeit at their own individual pace. As much as I hate to admit it, this proved true when I was in both Senegal and India. The novelty of a distant and foreign land full of adventure was displaced by the frustration of constant sweat and mud and unbearable heat. And then we took an upswing - travel was great, my language skills were noticeably improving - and then back down when I missed eating pizza and had eight hours of class on Thanksgiving day. The ups and downs of a predicted emotional roller coaster were sudden. I learned to chart my progress objectively with the understanding that "this too shall pass". Some lows were really low, and some highs were really high, until I began to find equilibrium just before jetting off and beginning the process again.

So I believed it would be safe to expect the same process to occur here in Cambodia. Except this time, something is different. I began on a low - frustration with my housing situation, a total vacuum of information about my requirements for work, and the return of constant sweat. "This too shall pass", I told myself during my first week of chaos and confusion and helplessness.

Halfway through week 2, I noticed my ascent on the gradual upswing of an early abroad experience. I arranged for my own reliable transportation to work! I provided dinner for myself! I met some interesting people! And the upswing continued, expanding to include specifically Cambodian aspects of my life. I fell in love with moto rides and fried noodles. I set up a hammock, from which I can enjoy the cacophanous music of street vendors and ice cream motos. I spent an hour sitting, chatting with a monk, and I played chess with the old men sitting on my corner. The upswing continued, but I was wary. "This too shall pass." I wondered when I would fall back to the reality of living in the developing world on my own. Another week of bliss passed, and then another. I continued to climb higher on the emotional graph - I visited the temples of Angkor, I swam in a pool with an ocean view at Kep, I made plans to go to Singapore and Malaysia (yes, that is happening). I ate fried rice and onion soup, and I took my first Khmer lesson. I found myself falling in love with the easy pace of a peaceful Cambodia. I enjoyed my work, and tested the fantastic Phnom Penh restaurant scene (Indian! French! Chinese! Mexican!).

The weeks have continued to pass, and here I am now. About six weeks after I noticed my upswing, I am still up. I am still happy! Sure, there are moments (the smell of Thanksgiving, an old John Denver song in a cafe, the everpresent sweat) that bring me down, but these are always short-lived temporary falls. How long will it last? I ask myself, afraid that my fairy tale might end. Or, I tell myself optimistically, perhaps I have broken the cycle.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Restaurant Etiquette

I like to think that I lead a quiet life here, but really I am shrouded in a strangely conspicuous anonymity.

I go to lunch alone, thinking that I am a Strong and Independent woman. As I enter the Khmer cafe I am greeted by the sensuous dance of ginger and lemongrass and garlic. The staff snaps to attention, suddenly straight-backed and busy. I notice that all eyes are on me as I walk to a quiet, well-lit corner. A petite, uniformed waitress follows one half-step behind with a placid smile and a laminated twelve-page menu. A third of the dishes have halfhearted English descriptions, but most are accompanied by identical images of fried rice and fried noodles.

This menu is complicated and nearly unreadable, and I struggle to find any difference between "Khmer fried noodle with chicken" and "fried noodle with chicken Khmer". Diligently, I wade through the murky options reading page after page of soups and entrees. The entire time, my eager waitresses stands just beside my shoulder, watching, waiting. I feel rushed to decide quickly and place my order.

I point to an image of chicken and rice, and my waitress cheerfully scampers off.

Thursday, September 22, 2011

When it rains, it pours


I love the monsoon's daily downpour.

Two droplets of water hit the ground in near slow motion as a warning to don the raincoat and run for shelter. Moments later, the blackened sky opens and torrential rains hail upon the unfortunate pedestrian. The wind howls through the office hallway, rattling the framed map of Cambodia. Moto drivers pull on bright yellow and pink and purple polka dotted ponchos without even slowing down, and tuk-tuk drivers unroll forest green waterproof flaps to protect their passengers. A schoolgirl tries to shelter her Barbie backpack. The parking attendant at a popular lunchtime cafe chases after a customer, fruitlessly trying to cover her with a broken black umbrella. An older gentleman sits on his doorstep under a small awning wearing nothing but plaid boxer shorts. He smokes a cigarette, closes his eyes, and inhales the scent of earth that is only present after the fumes from car exhaust have been washed away.

The roads turn to mud and recently repaid potholes disintegrate back into murky ponds. The water falls on the tin roof of our office gazebo with the steady rata-tat-tat of the snare drum in a military parade. Rain is rhythmic, peaceful, and (usually) predictable.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Disconnect

I just spent the entire evening speaking only in French with three girls from Japan, Romania, and Germany in an Indian restaurant in Cambodia.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

The Cambodian Countryside

Scene from the drive between Siem Reap and Phnom Penh.